Monthly Archives: February 2018

The Virgin-Queen Archetype

This piece I wrote on FetLife a little while ago.  It expresses some of my thoughts on the type of person I find irresistible as a domme – The Virgin Queen.

The Gresham’s Law of Online BDSM

I have a theory about what the Internet has done to the expectations of both dommes and subs as to what BDSM really is.  I’ve given potted versions to various people but now I have my own space I can fully elaborate.