Monthly Archives: December 2019

SwirlingFire: 2019 The Year of Self Discovery

Reading Time: 4 minutes 2019 The Year of Self Discovery I wasn’t going to do any year summary round up, I now feel a bit guilty for not making a list. I’ve recently posted #SwirlyApprovedList and also my top ten most read blogs.  Reading many other end of year blogs, I feel I’ve been hasty and ungrateful.  Which was never the intention.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #6

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #6   #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside  #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #7

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #7   #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request  #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #2

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #2 #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #8

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #8 #8 The Request  #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #9

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #9 #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases,… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #10

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #10 #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases, light bulb moments. … Read More »

SwirlingFire: #SwirlyApprovedList

Reading Time: 4 minutes #SwirlyApprovedList I wasn’t going to make an end of year “list of Top Anythings” However, I have received acknowledgments this year: The Kinkly Top 100 Sex Bloggers  An immense shock, tears and self reflection. It was a strong punch to my reality. Although not a “mechanics of sex” BDSM, kink and d/s blog – it is exactly about… Read More »

Christmas on Beasley Street

Reading Time: 4 minutes   There’s no real message in this post, more a stream of consciousness. “Smile and the whole World smiles with you …”, thus sang Louis Armstrong and many others who covered the song.  When you can’t, or don’t want to face the world, it’s not so easy to see who’s smiling. The Sunday before Christmas I was smiling,… Read More »

The Blessing of Friendship

Reading Time: 3 minutes It really came home to me last night just how blessed I have been with some of the people in my life.  In a packed restaurant I was sat opposite my former mistress and we’re talking about anything and everything. She suffers from depression, anxiety and PTSD which means she can shut out the world for long periods… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Rewarded with Punishments

Reading Time: 4 minutes Rewarded with Punishments My introduction to BDSM and d/s was not a straightforward or ethically healthy and open way to learn. Originally, this prompt was spawned from memories of enjoying CP, daddy’s belt, caning as positive attention and showing his pleasure towards me.  I had read several blogs of other submissives and noted time after time, the things… Read More »

[F4Thought] One Book

Reading Time: 5 minutes   Perhaps my very earliest memory is from the age of around three, being in bed and being taught to read by my mother.  Yes, she did also read to me, or tell stories.  She loved Greek mythology and imbued me with the magic of story telling from antiquity. Those memories don’t last long, once she’d got me… Read More »

A Bit of Needle

Reading Time: < 1 minute   Content Notice Needle Play Pictures Needle play started as curiosity, an activity where she persuaded me to broach limits.  Those earliest sessions were about learning how to relax, cope with the endorphins and didn’t include so many needles as to create large patterns. More recently the number of needles has increased and the patterns she creates have… Read More »