I love the incongruous in BDSM, the unexpected moments to produce a giggle, the quirky and the downright hilarious. Tension busting moments. Ice breaking moments.
This is the first in an occasional series,
I thought it was time to lighten things up a bit.
I don’t think I could get on with a domme who didn’t enjoy the frivolous moments as much as I do, or at least tolerate them. That’s a bit hard for some dommes because sometimes those moments will be a puncture in their aura, the immaculate image brought low. If either of you wants to stand on your dignity, nature is going to take revenge at some time.
I can think of the time where I took a skirt to the session straight from the packaging and not tried it on beforehand. Walking out in to the dungeon after changing and it felt a little loose. After being blindfolded and cuffed she led me across the dungeon to one of the benches. Half a dozen steps in, my skirt was around my ankles. Cue giggling all around and obviously references to melody being a slut.
My knees are quite fragile, I can barely kneel at all with pressure through the joints. The first time I was on her spanking bench the pain from the knees outweighed the pain from the canes. The next time I turned up with a cushion.
That cushion comes out in all sorts of circumstances, it’s almost my signature trademark.
When things don’t go to plan, I love the way she sees the funny side and laughs it off before adjusting.