SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #3

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #3

#3 Gaslighting & Ghosting

#4 Overshare

#5 The Hour Glass

#6 Twitter Changed My Life

#7 Empty On The Inside

#8 The Request

#9 Mentor

#10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet


These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words.

The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts.

In some cases, light bulb moments.  In others, still mixed feelings of confusion and anger.

Thank you for the support and comments at the time of original publishing.  It was greatly appreciated to be “heard”

#3 – posted May 2019

This was a post that turned in a very different direction from my original draft.  It was chosen for a reference piece for #sb4mh, it was a big turning point for me.  My words were considered of value to highlight Gaslighting and how very different it is to Ghosting.

I was also a catalyst for several people for whom “the penny dropped”.  They were in a similar “relationship cycle” and were now able to begin their healing with
purpose understanding why previous therapy hadn’t fully helped.

In sharing my life history and the current confusion for my future self, it’s just possible, I’ve helped others from not falling into the Dark Abyss of Abuse.

Swirlingfire: A Posting History

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