Category Archives: Swirlingfire

SwirlingFire: The Silent Timekeeper

Reading Time: 2 minutes The Silent Timekeeper I’m the full stop in mid sentence The pause in every breath The funeral march that envelops The disorderly disgrace I’m the half drunk cup of coffee With the lipstick smeared rim The swirling of the liquid weather turning grim I’m the clicking of each footstep The echo in your head I’m thoughts that keep… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #3

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #3 #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #4

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #4   #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #5

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #5   #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside  #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and… Read More »

SwirlingFire: 2019 The Year of Self Discovery

Reading Time: 4 minutes 2019 The Year of Self Discovery I wasn’t going to do any year summary round up, I now feel a bit guilty for not making a list. I’ve recently posted #SwirlyApprovedList and also my top ten most read blogs.  Reading many other end of year blogs, I feel I’ve been hasty and ungrateful.  Which was never the intention.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #6

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #6   #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside  #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #7

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #7   #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request  #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #2

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #2 #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #8

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #8 #8 The Request  #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts.… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #9

Reading Time: < 1 minute Swirly Most Read Posts – #9 #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases,… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #10

Reading Time: 2 minutes Swirly Most Read Posts – #10 #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases, light bulb moments. … Read More »

SwirlingFire: #SwirlyApprovedList

Reading Time: 4 minutes #SwirlyApprovedList I wasn’t going to make an end of year “list of Top Anythings” However, I have received acknowledgments this year: The Kinkly Top 100 Sex Bloggers  An immense shock, tears and self reflection. It was a strong punch to my reality. Although not a “mechanics of sex” BDSM, kink and d/s blog – it is exactly about… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Rewarded with Punishments

Reading Time: 4 minutes Rewarded with Punishments My introduction to BDSM and d/s was not a straightforward or ethically healthy and open way to learn. Originally, this prompt was spawned from memories of enjoying CP, daddy’s belt, caning as positive attention and showing his pleasure towards me.  I had read several blogs of other submissives and noted time after time, the things… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Game, Set. Match

Reading Time: 2 minutes Game, Set. Match That’s a great Avi As the drool hits the screen Another great body All buffed Shiny clean lace, heels, stockings Can you hear the clasps snap I’m new I’m exciting My bio screams “bait” The opening gambit The giggle back kissy face emojis Followback chat The usual style The change underway The tentative enquiries targets… Read More »

SwirlingFire: See You Next Tuesday

Reading Time: 4 minutes See You Next Tuesday Tuesday 14 May 2019 “See You Next Tuesday” Tuesday’s I always want to sleep as long as possible, invariably, I wake up really early, before six am and can’t settle back to sleepy snoozing. I then have 7 or 8 hours of restless pacing or trying to find errands or jobs around the house… Read More »

SwirlingFire: Gratitude

Reading Time: 4 minutes Gratitude It’s the weirdest thing. Seeing my Twitter @name in a compilation list  – The Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2019 I’m not a nuts and bolts, dildo testing, vibrator wielding, uncovered gusset angled writer. Whilst, I quickly add – zero judgements of others – this is, after all, how we learn from each other and find our… Read More »

SwirlingFire: One Wish

Reading Time: 4 minutes One Wish Thoughts keep swirling into view then out again. My head aches from too many thoughts. I’m not a scholarly deep thinker I’m an over thinker An over analyser The last few days (at time of writing) have not been the best.  I thought I was doing a lot better.  It’s the first meltdown I’ve had in… Read More »