Category Archives: Rants

Excuse me ?!?!

Time for a minor rant. One of my more unusual posts was about a sploshing session done a couple of months ago.  My domme had a picture from that session up on FetLife.  The cause of my irritation is that today a new comment appeared under the picture.

Consent & Contracts

Consent is a topic that’s currently on a lot of people’s minds.  Before diving in to this post I should state that consent is a good thing, there should be consent 100% of the time one is engaged.  How consent is maintained, updated and revoked is heavily nuanced by the circumstances and the people involved. 

Mrs Silk: An Unintentional Pioneer

For those of us of a certain age and who had early Internet access Mrs Silk was a revelation and a pioneer.  It’s seems that her achievements were rather accidental as she never really capitalised on them.  That’s often the way with pioneers, they start something but it takes others to really make it a success.

The Gresham’s Law of Online BDSM

I have a theory about what the Internet has done to the expectations of both dommes and subs as to what BDSM really is.  I’ve given potted versions to various people but now I have my own space I can fully elaborate.

Health and Safety Gone Mad

This is a phrase you often hear and tend to associate it with an aged colonel spluttering in to his breakfast tea as he reads The Daily Telegraph.

I present to you a genuine training document from the Health & Safety department for which a completion credit was mandatory.