Endorphin Rush
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Content Warning Pictures of needle play It’s not everyone’s cup of tea and less than two years ago it wouldn’t have been mine, either. In fact, it was something of a hard limit.
Safety
Invaluable Lesson In The Dungeon
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It’s not often you enter the dungeon and get greeted with “God you look awful !” I’ve no idea how I looked, but I sure felt terrible. Sod’s law had come to play. It had been some time since the previous CP session and I’d really been looking forward to this one until my body […]
Facing The Darkness
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I and others sometimes write about the descent in to darkness and dark fantasies that male subs, especially, are prone to. They’re often related to the internalised rationale of ‘I wish someone would make me do that.’
A Personal Journey Through D/s Hypnosis – Part 2, The Sub-Conscious
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The sub-conscious is a fantastic thing to explore and I’m still not really sure what it actually is. In recognising what I call my sub-conscious it has certainly given me more understanding and confidence both with hypnosis and beyond.
Consent & Contracts
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Consent is a topic that’s currently on a lot of people’s minds. Before diving in to this post I should state that consent is a good thing, there should be consent 100% of the time one is engaged. How consent is maintained, updated and revoked is heavily nuanced by the circumstances and the people involved.
The Mark of Cane
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Depending on your point of view I am one of those people, fortunate or unfortunate enough to heal quickly from BDSM punishment. Or more correctly, for the visible marks to fade quickly. Usually the deeper pain will also be gone quite rapidly unless she does something dramatic that borders on being a bit dangerous.
D/s Hypnosis – Where’s the Limit ?
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My original series of posts for PainAsPleasure was recently reposted on this blog MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM and I am very grateful to one concerned commenter with whom there was a wonderful conversation allowing me to expand on the safety aspects that aren’t apparent in the posts on hypnosis.