A Personal Journey Through D/s Hypnosis – Part 4, Where’s the Oblivion Switch ?
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Continuing with this occasional series, I thought I’d touch on one of my strange perceptions from within the tranced state.
Motivations
Changing Priorities
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Sometimes I have a stream of consciousness that expresses itself over many months. Things that fill the mind in the small hours of sleeplessness. Quite amazing the personal thoughts that end up here as if this was actually a totally private space.
Thoughts on Financial Domination
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I don’t know – you get suckered by the perils of Twitter exchanges where you find you’ve half committed writing a post on the topic in question. Up to now I’ve specifically kept away from the topic of financial domination. Partly because I knew I’d write way too much. Whilst I have mixed views on […]
Wish Fulfilment vs Reality
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I was ruminating on a variation of that old perennial of what would one do if one had the money to be free of the usual responsibilities. Where my mind turned to was that this was a form of fantasy wish fulfilment. Some of those wishes may be grounded in some reality but are generally […]
Who’d Get Locked in Chastity ?
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The answer is that there are a surprising number who do so and many many times that number who fantasise about it.
The Elusive Emotional Orgasm
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Despite modern pressures to acknowledge and cater to emotions it has to be said that for older male generations it is still largely taboo to express emotion. We were conditioned to ‘suck it up’, stiff upper lip and all that. Perhaps the one emotion that’s almost acceptable to display is anger but so often it […]
A Personal Journey Through D/s Hypnosis – Part 3, Whose Thoughts Are They ?
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To continue this occasional series, I thought I’d touch on a common misperception about hypnosis. It’s the idea that the subject must be so weak-willed that they are overcome by the hypnotist and subject to their will and the suggestions or thoughts implanted by hypnosis.
Why Do I Write This Blog ?
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Being the flippant bugger I am, that question brings to mind the Bill Hicks Waffle House routine.
A Personal Journey Through D/s Hypnosis – Part 2, The Sub-Conscious
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The sub-conscious is a fantastic thing to explore and I’m still not really sure what it actually is. In recognising what I call my sub-conscious it has certainly given me more understanding and confidence both with hypnosis and beyond.
The Making (and Breaking) of a Chastity Sub
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I recently published a post Consent & Contracts on how contracts in D/s can at best blur the issues of consent and at worst lead to abuse. When I wrote it I had in mind to write a separate post relating how I migrated from the world of fantasy in to a full blown real chastity D/s […]
It’s a Wonder That Any D/s Relationship Gets off the Ground
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I can’t speak for female subs, but the drivers for a male sub can be pathological. At some level we are all seeking attention.
What Do You Mean, You Want To Be Forced ?
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That’s the silent question in a domme’s head every time they hear a sub asking for forced-bi or forced-feminisation.
D/s Hypnosis – Where’s the Limit ?
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My original series of posts for PainAsPleasure was recently reposted on this blog MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM and I am very grateful to one concerned commenter with whom there was a wonderful conversation allowing me to expand on the safety aspects that aren’t apparent in the posts on hypnosis.
Melody The Size Queen
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Well, that title got your attention !!! This is a slightly unusual post. It’s all too easy to ignore or play down personal achievements. For once, melody just wants to be bold in celebrating a personal achievement.
MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM
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This post was originally posted on 20/02/2018 as the last of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM but is reproduced here in it’s […]
MELODY’S STORY, PART 1 – submission
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This post was originally posted on 2/01/2018 as the first of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’s STORY, PART 1 – Submission but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
Excuses, Excuses . . .
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We’ve all made excuses for things. Our behaviour, things we promised and didn’t deliver, undying devotion to a domme of 3 days online acquaintance, tasks left undone.
Fears of Questioning Your Gender and Sexuality – Don’t believe the labels
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This post is about my earliest searches for truth about who and what I am. Hopefully, it may help new subs with similar leanings and questions to get started and slay some of the demons in their heads.
The Virgin-Queen Archetype
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This piece I wrote on FetLife a little while ago. It expresses some of my thoughts on the type of person I find irresistible as a domme – The Virgin Queen.
You Don’t Need A Collar To Be An Owned Submissive
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I was given a collar once, you know. It didn’t work out too well at the time. Despite having submissive leanings for years before meeting this lifestyle chastity domme I had a lot to unlearn before I could learn properly what it meant to be a sub.
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