Why Do I Write This Blog ?
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Being the flippant bugger I am, that question brings to mind the Bill Hicks Waffle House routine.
Discovery
Women Rarely Know How Intimidating They Are
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This post is inspired by a conversation this week with a lovely blogging lady. I’m speaking of when I grew up. I can’t speak for current generations, but the indications are that the gap in male understanding of females is wider and more unbridgeable than ever.
Ponderings on a Purity of Submission
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What is this submission thing ? What does it actually mean ? Not so long ago I woke up in the middle of the night with my mind whirling like a tornado as it latched on to these questions. Sometimes hypnosis is very subtle in the way it can work on the mind. This was […]
Innate Feminine Skills – Not Quite a Closed Door
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As one tries to look feminine it becomes apparent that there seem to be lots of skills that females perform as if innate magic knowledge was placed inside them at birth. That there ought to be some magic wand you can touch to transfer those skills.
A Personal Journey Through D/s Hypnosis – Part 2, The Sub-Conscious
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The sub-conscious is a fantastic thing to explore and I’m still not really sure what it actually is. In recognising what I call my sub-conscious it has certainly given me more understanding and confidence both with hypnosis and beyond.
The Personal Pronouns Quagmire
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I find this an odd topic to contemplate on a personal level. I can read articles from people who are very aware of their preferred pronouns and I’ve come to understand why this is an important issue to them. Having said that, as the combined entity of him and her I am starting to have […]
Memories of a Special Person
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I thought it time to write of the first domme I knew in the flesh as there’s an unexpected twist to the tale.
What Does It Mean To Be Normal ?
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I’ve seen posts with many variations of this theme. People asking themselves if they are normal or perceived as normal. Indeed, what is normal ? Obviously, I’ve asked the same questions of myself over the years. I think the question pre-supposes a certain level of self-awareness. If you never question elements of your own make […]
In Which Melody Exposes Herself
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A couple of months ago I had a special type of session, providing more fun than I had any right to expect.
Suckered by Labels, Again.
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I’ve been suckered by labels again. Just when I thought I’d cleaned out the last of them, hubris brings me back to earth.
The Mark of Cane
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Depending on your point of view I am one of those people, fortunate or unfortunate enough to heal quickly from BDSM punishment. Or more correctly, for the visible marks to fade quickly. Usually the deeper pain will also be gone quite rapidly unless she does something dramatic that borders on being a bit dangerous.
Gender Fluid Identity
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For most of my life I’ve asked questions of myself regarding sexuality and gender. I have to admit that for many years I never really understood they were separate questions. Some 25+ years ago I got my first access to the Internet and started to find some answers that I could quite happily live with.
D/s Hypnosis – Where’s the Limit ?
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My original series of posts for PainAsPleasure was recently reposted on this blog MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM and I am very grateful to one concerned commenter with whom there was a wonderful conversation allowing me to expand on the safety aspects that aren’t apparent in the posts on hypnosis.
Taking your kink to work
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It’s the little things that can thrill or amuse. There are the things that you might try in order to experience the thrill of potential discovery. And there are the things that can be seen and assumed to be normal.