Who do the Inner Voices Belong to ?
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What about those voices ? Do they like to tell you what to do ? Do you listen ? Can you ignore them ?
SwirlingFire: The Superior Sex
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The Superior Sex The following piece describes emotional mental and physical abuse from Narcissist Personality Disorder and non-consensual sexual sadism – although this piece of writing is heavily sanitised from specifics, it may be distressing for those coming to terms with the realisations from an abusive sexual partner. for support to those affected by the […]
SwirlingFire: The Silent Timekeeper
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The Silent Timekeeper I’m the full stop in mid sentence The pause in every breath The funeral march that envelops The disorderly disgrace I’m the half drunk cup of coffee With the lipstick smeared rim The swirling of the liquid weather turning grim I’m the clicking of each footstep The echo in your head I’m […]
[F4Thought] Home Is Not A Setting On My SatNav
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Home is not a physical place that I recognise. I was uprooted from the last place I last considered to be a physical place to call home at the age of eight. I’ve never since thought of a building, town or even a wide geographic location as home. The closest I got to that […]
SwirlingFire: Kindness is a River
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Kindness is a River Kindness is a River that quenches the land Kindness is a River that extends a hand Kindness is a River that flows across clay Kindness is a River that will find its own way Kindness is a River that gathers speed Kindness is a River that everyone needs Kindness is a […]
[F4Thought] Intimacy
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This wasn’t a prompt I thought I could write about, then I saw the posts that have already been linked and they set me thinking. One of the things to surprise me was the number of people who separated sex and intimacy. Some going so far as to actively consider them as separate activities […]
[TellMeAbout] The Non-Masochist Painslut
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Pain – Now there’s a word that splits me in two. In general terms, I hate pain. Even mild discomfort is something I avoid in daily life. When it comes to D/s, it’s a whole different ball game. It gives both my current domme and my former mistress a giggle to bracket me as […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #1
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #1 #1 The First Scent of Fear #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #3
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #3 #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #4
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #4 #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #5
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #5 #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #6
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #6 #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning […]
[#F4T] 2019: That Was The Year That Was
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This post, published just before Christmas wasn’t linked to any prompt. Very timely that May and Floss have “2019 in a Nutshell” as the #F4T prompt to end the year. With Christmas being somewhat crap, re-reading this post of only 10 days ago provides a larger perspective on how good a year 2019 has been […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #7
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #7 #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #2
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #2 #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #8
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #8 #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #9
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #9 #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. […]
SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #10
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #10 #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases, […]
SwirlingFire: #SwirlyApprovedList
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#SwirlyApprovedList I wasn’t going to make an end of year “list of Top Anythings” However, I have received acknowledgments this year: The Kinkly Top 100 Sex Bloggers An immense shock, tears and self reflection. It was a strong punch to my reality. Although not a “mechanics of sex” BDSM, kink and d/s blog – it […]
Christmas on Beasley Street
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There’s no real message in this post, more a stream of consciousness. “Smile and the whole World smiles with you …”, thus sang Louis Armstrong and many others who covered the song. When you can’t, or don’t want to face the world, it’s not so easy to see who’s smiling. The Sunday before Christmas […]