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SwirlingFire
10 months ago

SwirlingFire: A Pocketful of Changes

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Reading Time: 3 minutes

A Pocketful of Changes Snakes wearing dresses with too many pockets; concealing their weapons hidden from sight. florals and stripes with pretty bows flowing; eager to please before claws start to swipe. Sweet fragrant Laughter, safe in small spaces; Slipping from focus, waiting to strike. Satin swishing, shiny and sparkling; Supple butter leather as flexible […]

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10 months ago

Denial or Subjective Reality

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Reading Time: 3 minutes

  Denial of Self Sometimes when I look back it can make me feel like I’ve been Peter denying Christ after the Last Supper and a lot more than three times.  The parallel that I’d forgotten was that after the third denial the cock crowed and it reminded Peter that Jesus had said Peter would […]

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10 months ago

Eating Your Own Liver

melodyinsights #SB4MH, Anxiety, Non-Kink, Personal 8

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‘Eating you own liver’ – It’s an old phrase that I haven’t seen in use for some time.  For me it sums up some of those feelings generated by social anxiety.

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10 months ago

[TellMeAbout] You’re so extreme …

melodyinsights #TellMeAbout, Chastity, Edge Play, Kink, Lifestyle, Personal 6

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  It’s really hard to consider that the activities you enjoy are edge play.  You are comfortable embarking on them even though you know how difficult or stressful they can end up being.  And yet, the eye of the beholder can be illuminating. 

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10 months ago

Not So Little Boots

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  I haven’t taken or posted pictures for a while.  But for these boot’s I had to.  

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11 months ago

Discovering Curves

melodyinsights #WickedWednesday, Confidence, Femininity, figure, Personal, Relationships, Style 19

Reading Time: 3 minutes

  Prompts can sometimes pass by in a blur when you’re not ready to write.  Sometimes you look at a prompt and think you have no connection to it.  And that’s how it was for this prompt until I came upon this picture.

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11 months ago

[F4Thought] The Kink Dating Game

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Dating 13

Reading Time: 4 minutes

  How does an introverted, asexual, aromantic submissive go dating ?  I guess that over the years the answer works out to be rarely and with trepidation.

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11 months ago

[F4Thought] Why Regret The Chances We Didn’t Take ?

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Personal 12

Reading Time: 4 minutes

As old Blue Eyes sang ‘Regrets, I’ve had a few’, we all do.

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11 months ago

The Path To Despair

melodyinsights Gender Dysphoria, Mental Illness, Suicide 9

Reading Time: 3 minutes

Content Notice:  Suicide and suicidal thoughts.   I’ll categorically state here that this is not a cry for help.  It’s a place to dump when there’s that realisation that things are not okay.  The best way for me to handle that right now is to take a break from the shit and purge some thoughts.  […]

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SwirlingFire
11 months ago

SwirlingFire: Love Letter To A Nobody

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Reading Time: 4 minutes

Love Letter To A Nobody Reframing my thinking … “People pleasing” is also known as “fawning” – displaying weak boundaries, inviting abusers and narcissists into your space / life with one’s own kindness and compassion, seeing it being leeched away, then turned against the target. It is also establishing repeated permission to be treated cruelly […]

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12 months ago

[TellMeAbout] The Aromantic

melodyinsights #TellMeAbout, Asexuality, Discovery, Friendship, Identity, Intimacy, Personal 18

Reading Time: 4 minutes

  I’ve had a lot of confusion over the years about romance.  Growing up, so much propaganda gets bombarded at us.  Be good, be dutiful, follow the norms of your parents and grand-parents and you, too, will live the Stepford dream of romance and the perfect partner.

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12 months ago

[#F4Thought] Proud, Smug or Stubborn ?

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Confidence, D/s, Personal, Pride, Submission 14

Reading Time: 5 minutes   Pride usually gets me into trouble. Or perhaps it’s not actual pride, more an unguarded slide into smugness. The worst part of pride is mistaking it for approval from others. Well, let’s qualify that, it’s when they are approving of you in doing things that conform to their world view and not yours.

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12 months ago

[#F4Thought] Privacy Through the Keyhole

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Barriers, Privacy, Relationships, Secrets 10

Reading Time: 4 minutes

  I find that the prompt of privacy also encompasses several other recent prompts that I’ve been too busy to write for. When all is said and done I am a very private person.  Is that a natural trait, or is it a learned behaviour.  I don’t think I was a private person until the […]

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12 months ago

Sorry from melody

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  Over the past week, this blog has been sick.  Actually it’s been sick for a while and my attempts to fix it in the last few days have seen quite a lot of various spam type notifications being emitted, making it look suspiciously compromised. Thank you to those who got in touch worried that […]

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12 months ago

Who do the Inner Voices Belong to ?

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  What about those voices ? Do they like to tell you what to do ? Do you listen ? Can you ignore them ?

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SwirlingFire
12 months ago

SwirlingFire: The Superior Sex

melodyinsights #SB4MH, #WickedWednesday, Swirlingfire 13

Reading Time: 5 minutes

The Superior Sex The following piece describes emotional mental and physical abuse from Narcissist Personality Disorder and non-consensual sexual sadism – although this piece of writing is heavily sanitised from specifics, it may be distressing for those coming to terms with the realisations from an abusive sexual partner. for support to those affected by the […]

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SwirlingFire
12 months ago

SwirlingFire: The Silent Timekeeper

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Reading Time: 2 minutes

The Silent Timekeeper I’m the full stop in mid sentence The pause in every breath The funeral march that envelops The disorderly disgrace I’m the half drunk cup of coffee With the lipstick smeared rim The swirling of the liquid weather turning grim I’m the clicking of each footstep The echo in your head I’m […]

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January 17, 2020

[F4Thought] Home Is Not A Setting On My SatNav

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Reading Time: 4 minutes

  Home is not a physical place that I recognise.  I was uprooted from the last place I last considered to be a physical place to call home at the age of eight.  I’ve never since thought of a building, town or even a wide geographic location as home. The closest I got to that […]

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SwirlingFire
January 16, 2020

SwirlingFire: Kindness is a River

melodyinsights #F4Thought, #SB4MH, #TellMeAbout, #WickedWednesday, Swirlingfire 8

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Kindness is a River Kindness is a River that quenches the land Kindness is a River that extends a hand Kindness is a River that flows across clay Kindness is a River that will find its own way Kindness is a River that gathers speed Kindness is a River that everyone needs Kindness is a […]

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January 11, 2020

[F4Thought] Intimacy

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Confidence, Emotion, Fears, Feelings, Intimacy, Personal 9

Reading Time: 5 minutes

  This wasn’t a prompt I thought I could write about, then I saw the posts that have already been linked and they set me thinking. One of the things to surprise me was the number of people who separated sex and intimacy.  Some going so far as to actively consider them as separate activities […]

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