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Pain – Now there’s a word that splits me in two. In general terms, I hate pain. Even mild discomfort is something I avoid in daily life. When it comes to D/s, it’s a whole different ball game. It gives both my current domme and my former mistress a giggle to bracket me as […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #1 #1 The First Scent of Fear #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #3 #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #4 #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #5 #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #6 #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning […]
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This post, published just before Christmas wasn’t linked to any prompt. Very timely that May and Floss have “2019 in a Nutshell” as the #F4T prompt to end the year. With Christmas being somewhat crap, re-reading this post of only 10 days ago provides a larger perspective on how good a year 2019 has been […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #7 #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #2 #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #8 #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #9 #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. […]
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Swirly Most Read Posts – #10 #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic. It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases, […]
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#SwirlyApprovedList I wasn’t going to make an end of year “list of Top Anythings” However, I have received acknowledgments this year: The Kinkly Top 100 Sex Bloggers An immense shock, tears and self reflection. It was a strong punch to my reality. Although not a “mechanics of sex” BDSM, kink and d/s blog – it […]
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There’s no real message in this post, more a stream of consciousness. “Smile and the whole World smiles with you …”, thus sang Louis Armstrong and many others who covered the song. When you can’t, or don’t want to face the world, it’s not so easy to see who’s smiling. The Sunday before Christmas […]
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Now that’s a scary title reference. Here I am trying to be culturally topical except that on checking I find that TW3 aired even before I was born 😱 !! For the blog this has been a year of consolidation. It’s first full January to December. The first year of it being part of […]
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There are big lies and small lies. There are the lies we tell ourselves, the lies we tell to others and the lies others present to us.
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It really came home to me last night just how blessed I have been with some of the people in my life. In a packed restaurant I was sat opposite my former mistress and we’re talking about anything and everything. She suffers from depression, anxiety and PTSD which means she can shut out the world […]
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Rewarded with Punishments My introduction to BDSM and d/s was not a straightforward or ethically healthy and open way to learn. Originally, this prompt was spawned from memories of enjoying CP, daddy’s belt, caning as positive attention and showing his pleasure towards me. I had read several blogs of other submissives and noted time after […]
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Perhaps my very earliest memory is from the age of around three, being in bed and being taught to read by my mother. Yes, she did also read to me, or tell stories. She loved Greek mythology and imbued me with the magic of story telling from antiquity. Those memories don’t last long, once […]
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Content Notice Needle Play Pictures Needle play started as curiosity, an activity where she persuaded me to broach limits. Those earliest sessions were about learning how to relax, cope with the endorphins and didn’t include so many needles as to create large patterns. More recently the number of needles has increased and the patterns […]