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January 11, 2020

[F4Thought] Intimacy

melodyinsights #F4Thought, Confidence, Emotion, Fears, Feelings, Intimacy, Personal 9

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  This wasn’t a prompt I thought I could write about, then I saw the posts that have already been linked and they set me thinking. One of the things to surprise me was the number of people who separated sex and intimacy.  Some going so far as to actively consider them as separate activities […]

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January 5, 2020

[TellMeAbout] The Non-Masochist Painslut

melodyinsights #TellMeAbout, D/s, Pain 30

Reading Time: 4 minutes

  Pain – Now there’s a word that splits me in two.  In general terms, I hate pain.  Even mild discomfort is something I avoid in daily life.  When it comes to D/s, it’s a whole different ball game.  It gives both my current domme and my former mistress a giggle to bracket me as […]

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SwirlingFire
January 4, 2020

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #1

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #1 #1 The First Scent of Fear #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I […]

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SwirlingFire
January 2, 2020

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #3

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #3 #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. […]

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SwirlingFire
January 1, 2020

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #4

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #4   #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of […]

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SwirlingFire
January 1, 2020

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #5

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #5   #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside  #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and […]

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SwirlingFire
December 31, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #6

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #6   #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside  #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning […]

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December 31, 2019

[#F4T] 2019: That Was The Year That Was

melodyinsights #F4Thought, #SB4MH, #SoSS, #TellMeAbout, #WickedWednesday, Melody the Kitten, Review 9

Reading Time: 9 minutes

This post, published just before Christmas wasn’t linked to any prompt.  Very timely that May and Floss have “2019 in a Nutshell” as the #F4T prompt to end the year.  With Christmas being somewhat crap, re-reading this post of only 10 days ago provides a larger perspective on how good a year 2019 has been […]

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SwirlingFire
December 30, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #7

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #7   #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request  #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s […]

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SwirlingFire
December 30, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #2

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #2 #2 Silent Scream #3 Gaslighting & Ghosting #4 Overshare #5 The Hour Glass #6 Twitter Changed My Life #7 Empty On The Inside #8 The Request #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly […]

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SwirlingFire
December 30, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #8

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #8 #8 The Request  #9 Mentor #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some […]

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SwirlingFire
December 29, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #9

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #9 #9 Mentor  #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet   These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. […]

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SwirlingFire
December 28, 2019

SwirlingFire: Swirly Most Read Posts – #10

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Swirly Most Read Posts – #10 #10 You’re Worthless so I Subtweet These are the most clicked posts since I was approached by melodyInsights.com to kindly host my words. The mix of styles and my waxing and waning temperament is quite dramatic.  It’s painful at times to revisit some of these posts. In some cases, […]

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SwirlingFire
December 26, 2019

SwirlingFire: #SwirlyApprovedList

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#SwirlyApprovedList I wasn’t going to make an end of year “list of Top Anythings” However, I have received acknowledgments this year: The Kinkly Top 100 Sex Bloggers  An immense shock, tears and self reflection. It was a strong punch to my reality. Although not a “mechanics of sex” BDSM, kink and d/s blog – it […]

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December 26, 2019

Christmas on Beasley Street

melodyinsights Mental Health, Non-Kink, Personal 11

Reading Time: 4 minutes

There’s no real message in this post, more a stream of consciousness. “Smile and the whole World smiles with you …”, thus sang Louis Armstrong and many others who covered the song.  When you can’t, or don’t want to face the world, it’s not so easy to see who’s smiling. The Sunday before Christmas I […]

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December 21, 2019

2019: That Was The Year That Was

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  Now that’s a scary title reference.  Here I am trying to be culturally topical except that on checking I find that TW3 aired even before I was born 😱 !! For the blog this has been a year of consolidation.  It’s first full January to December.  The first year of it being part of […]

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December 20, 2019

[F4Thought] Coward of the County

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There are big lies and small lies.  There are the lies we tell ourselves, the lies we tell to others and the lies others present to us.

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December 15, 2019

The Blessing of Friendship

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It really came home to me last night just how blessed I have been with some of the people in my life.  In a packed restaurant I was sat opposite my former mistress and we’re talking about anything and everything. She suffers from depression, anxiety and PTSD which means she can shut out the world […]

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SwirlingFire
December 14, 2019

SwirlingFire: Rewarded with Punishments

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Reading Time: 4 minutes

Rewarded with Punishments My introduction to BDSM and d/s was not a straightforward or ethically healthy and open way to learn. Originally, this prompt was spawned from memories of enjoying CP, daddy’s belt, caning as positive attention and showing his pleasure towards me.  I had read several blogs of other submissives and noted time after […]

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Child-Reading
December 5, 2019

[F4Thought] One Book

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  Perhaps my very earliest memory is from the age of around three, being in bed and being taught to read by my mother.  Yes, she did also read to me, or tell stories.  She loved Greek mythology and imbued me with the magic of story telling from antiquity. Those memories don’t last long, once […]

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