Reading Time: 2 minutes I see some useful blogs and Twitter threads go by providing advice in how to approach and behave towards a domme. Or how the newly (and not so newly) curious might take the first steps to seeing their dreams and fantasies be played out in reality. This post looks at some of the same things but from a… Read More »
Reading Time: 5 minutes The issue of shadowbanning on Twitter seems to have hit a level of consciousness that at times reminds of the days when fat fingers would do something unexpected on a computer and the immediate conclusion people would jump to was that they had been infected with a mysterious virus. I’ve recently pointed a number of people at a… Read More »
Reading Time: 2 minutes The scene is set in The Grand Hotel in Brighton. The elegant sweeping staircase leading up from the plush and busy lobby. The rooms and the rest of the hotel hiding incipient shabbiness by playing on appealing through the quaintness of history and tradition rather than modern facilities.
Reading Time: 3 minutes We’ve all made excuses for things. Our behaviour, things we promised and didn’t deliver, undying devotion to a domme of 3 days online acquaintance, tasks left undone.
Reading Time: 4 minutes This post is about my earliest searches for truth about who and what I am. Hopefully, it may help new subs with similar leanings and questions to get started and slay some of the demons in their heads.
Reading Time: 3 minutes Heels, they’ve been a fetish since I was very young. These things grab us, stick in the mind until one day they surface with the desire to explore that fetish.
Reading Time: 5 minutes For those of us of a certain age and who had early Internet access Mrs Silk was a revelation and a pioneer. It’s seems that her achievements were rather accidental as she never really capitalised on them. That’s often the way with pioneers, they start something but it takes others to really make it a success.
Reading Time: 2 minutes This may be a contentious view for some of my potential audience.
Yes, I am a submissive and see a domme for what can be quite intense D/s. So what have I got against de Sade ?
Reading Time: < 1 minute After some internal debate I finally decided to post this. A recent visit to the opticians resulted in new prescriptions. One prescription for ultra clarity with short-sightedness, especially for driving. The problem with that was that I can no longer wear a single pair for driving and close up reading. So another prescription was made for reading. There… Read More »
Reading Time: 3 minutes This piece I wrote on FetLife a little while ago. It expresses some of my thoughts on the type of person I find irresistible as a domme – The Virgin Queen.
Reading Time: 3 minutes I was given a collar once, you know. It didn’t work out too well at the time. Despite having submissive leanings for years before meeting this lifestyle chastity domme I had a lot to unlearn before I could learn properly what it meant to be a sub.
Reading Time: 5 minutes I have a theory about what the Internet has done to the expectations of both dommes and subs as to what BDSM really is. I’ve given potted versions to various people but now I have my own space I can fully elaborate.
Reading Time: 3 minutes “Will you try something new ?”
That’s a hell of a question for a domme to ask.
Reading Time: 4 minutes It’s rather daunting to be sat here with a blank canvas and wondering what pictures to paint on it.
One thing that cropped up from my guest writings was the question of why hasn’t melody written before. Well, she has.
Reading Time: 2 minutes This is a phrase you often hear and tend to associate it with an aged colonel spluttering in to his breakfast tea as he reads The Daily Telegraph.
I present to you a genuine training document from the Health & Safety department for which a completion credit was mandatory.
Reading Time: 6 minutes Leonard Cohen was one cool dude. I wrote some words on hearing of his death and I reproduce them here with added images.