Suckered by Labels, Again.
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I’ve been suckered by labels again. Just when I thought I’d cleaned out the last of them, hubris brings me back to earth.
Personal
Can You Repair a Broken Soul ?
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The break up wasn’t a break up in the traditional sense. No drama, no acrimony. Simply a flow from one state to another. In the first state she was an active domme and in the second, she wasn’t. In the first state I was her sub, in the second, a close friend.
All Done In The Best Possible Taste
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Melody can be a right pain in the arse, she’s inherited a trait from the male side and made an art form of it.
The Dark Side of Humanity is Darker Than Ever
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This post is not about D/s nor is it funny. It’s about being angry at a re-awakening to the dark, vicious and sick side of humanity. Please move on if you’re looking to be amused. This is not an easy post.
What Do You Mean, You Want To Be Forced ?
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That’s the silent question in a domme’s head every time they hear a sub asking for forced-bi or forced-feminisation.
Gender Fluid Identity
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For most of my life I’ve asked questions of myself regarding sexuality and gender. I have to admit that for many years I never really understood they were separate questions. Some 25+ years ago I got my first access to the Internet and started to find some answers that I could quite happily live with.
A Letter to my 16 Year Old Self
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It’s a bit of a fad, so I thought I’d give it a go. Dear M, You won’t recognise me, though I recognise you all too well.
How Do I Know melody is Real ? – Emotions
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How real is melody ? It’s a question I’ve asked myself for years. In past years the answer would come back that she’s not very real, though her presence might explain some odd quirks of behaviour or feelings that are abnormal for the general personality. In more recent times with the encouragement of hypnosis, she […]
MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM
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This post was originally posted on 20/02/2018 as the last of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM but is reproduced here in it’s […]
Self-Indulgent Post.
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This is not my usual fare, it’s something of a self indulgence. Today would have been my mother’s 78th birthday. She was born in South London a matter of weeks before the Luftwaffe started dropping bombs on London.
MELODY’S STORY – part 2 – chastity
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This post was originally posted on 27/01/2018 as the second of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’S STORY – part 2 – chastity but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
MELODY’S STORY, PART 1 – submission
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This post was originally posted on 2/01/2018 as the first of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’s STORY, PART 1 – Submission but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
This Is Not The Domme You Are Looking For
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I see some useful blogs and Twitter threads go by providing advice in how to approach and behave towards a domme. Or how the newly (and not so newly) curious might take the first steps to seeing their dreams and fantasies be played out in reality. This post looks at some of the same things […]
The Bitter Sweetness of the End
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The scene is set in The Grand Hotel in Brighton. The elegant sweeping staircase leading up from the plush and busy lobby. The rooms and the rest of the hotel hiding incipient shabbiness by playing on appealing through the quaintness of history and tradition rather than modern facilities.
Melody: A Compulsive Shoe Shopper
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Heels, they’ve been a fetish since I was very young. These things grab us, stick in the mind until one day they surface with the desire to explore that fetish.
The Eyes Have It
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After some internal debate I finally decided to post this. A recent visit to the opticians resulted in new prescriptions. One prescription for ultra clarity with short-sightedness, especially for driving. The problem with that was that I can no longer wear a single pair for driving and close up reading. So another prescription was made […]