Subs of Convenience
Reading Time: 2 minutes I came across this term recently in an article by @DoctorSue. It is a wonderful encapsulation of something I’ve tried to convey myself but failed to reduce it to such a succinct phrase.
Category Archives: Submission
Facing The Darkness
Reading Time: 4 minutes I and others sometimes write about the descent in to darkness and dark fantasies that male subs, especially, are prone to. They’re often related to the internalised rationale of ‘I wish someone would make me do that.’
Ponderings on a Purity of Submission
Reading Time: 4 minutes What is this submission thing ? What does it actually mean ? Not so long ago I woke up in the middle of the night with my mind whirling like a tornado as it latched on to these questions. Sometimes hypnosis is very subtle in the way it can work on the mind. This was a less than… Read More »
A Squalid Ocean of Abuse – The Sissy
Reading Time: 8 minutes A few weeks back I wrote a post on clearing out the last of the mental garbage associated with the ‘sissy’ label. Around about that time there was a very good post by furcissy analysing the over broad usage of this label in confusing and pejorative ways. It’s a good piece, providing some insights in to the extensive behaviours and… Read More »
The Making (and Breaking) of a Chastity Sub
Reading Time: 7 minutes I recently published a post Consent & Contracts on how contracts in D/s can at best blur the issues of consent and at worst lead to abuse. When I wrote it I had in mind to write a separate post relating how I migrated from the world of fantasy in to a full blown real chastity D/s relationship, which included… Read More »
When the Shackles Come Off
Reading Time: 3 minutes There’s an erotic symbolism when a session starts and she puts on the cuffs. It’s a first step in the submission to feel the bondage restriction around the wrists. It sets you up for what’s to come. Doesn’t matter if it’s to be gentle or hard, the cuffs are a reminder that for this space in time you… Read More »
All Done In The Best Possible Taste
Reading Time: 2 minutes Melody can be a right pain in the arse, she’s inherited a trait from the male side and made an art form of it.
D/s Hypnosis – Where’s the Limit ?
Reading Time: 5 minutes My original series of posts for PainAsPleasure was recently reposted on this blog MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM and I am very grateful to one concerned commenter with whom there was a wonderful conversation allowing me to expand on the safety aspects that aren’t apparent in the posts on hypnosis.
MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM
Reading Time: 5 minutes This post was originally posted on 20/02/2018 as the last of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’S STORY – part 3, hypnosis in BDSM but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
MELODY’S STORY – part 2 – chastity
Reading Time: 5 minutes This post was originally posted on 27/01/2018 as the second of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’S STORY – part 2 – chastity but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
MELODY’S STORY, PART 1 – submission
Reading Time: 5 minutes This post was originally posted on 2/01/2018 as the first of three guest posts on the PainAsPleasure blog by BibulousOne. He saw something and encouraged melody to write. From those small beginnings I’ve graduated to running my own blog. The post can be found at MELODY’s STORY, PART 1 – Submission but is reproduced here in it’s entirety.
Excuses, Excuses . . .
Reading Time: 3 minutes We’ve all made excuses for things. Our behaviour, things we promised and didn’t deliver, undying devotion to a domme of 3 days online acquaintance, tasks left undone.
You Don’t Need A Collar To Be An Owned Submissive
Reading Time: 3 minutes I was given a collar once, you know. It didn’t work out too well at the time. Despite having submissive leanings for years before meeting this lifestyle chastity domme I had a lot to unlearn before I could learn properly what it meant to be a sub.
Breaking Limits, Pushing Boundaries
Reading Time: 3 minutes “Will you try something new ?”
That’s a hell of a question for a domme to ask.
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