Excuses, Excuses . . .
We’ve all made excuses for things. Our behaviour, things we promised and didn’t deliver, undying devotion to a domme of 3 days online acquaintance, tasks left undone.
Fears of Questioning Your Gender and Sexuality – Don’t believe the labels
This post is about my earliest searches for truth about who and what I am. Hopefully, it may help new subs with similar leanings and questions to get started and slay some of the demons in their heads.
Melody: A Compulsive Shoe Shopper
Heels, they’ve been a fetish since I was very young. These things grab us, stick in the mind until one day they surface with the desire to explore that fetish.
Mrs Silk: An Unintentional Pioneer
For those of us of a certain age and who had early Internet access Mrs Silk was a revelation and a pioneer. It’s seems that her achievements were rather accidental as she never really capitalised on them. That’s often the way with pioneers, they start something but it takes others to really make it a success.
Why I Don’t Like de Sade
This may be a contentious view for some of my potential audience.
Yes, I am a submissive and see a domme for what can be quite intense D/s. So what have I got against de Sade ?
The Eyes Have It
After some internal debate I finally decided to post this. A recent visit to the opticians resulted in new prescriptions. One prescription for ultra clarity with short-sightedness, especially for driving. The problem with that was that I can no longer wear a single pair for driving and close up reading. So another prescription was made for reading. There… Read More »
The Virgin-Queen Archetype
This piece I wrote on FetLife a little while ago. It expresses some of my thoughts on the type of person I find irresistible as a domme – The Virgin Queen.
You Don’t Need A Collar To Be An Owned Submissive
I was given a collar once, you know. It didn’t work out too well at the time. Despite having submissive leanings for years before meeting this lifestyle chastity domme I had a lot to unlearn before I could learn properly what it meant to be a sub.
The Gresham’s Law of Online BDSM
I have a theory about what the Internet has done to the expectations of both dommes and subs as to what BDSM really is. I’ve given potted versions to various people but now I have my own space I can fully elaborate.
Breaking Limits, Pushing Boundaries
“Will you try something new ?”
That’s a hell of a question for a domme to ask.
Where has melody been all this time ?
It’s rather daunting to be sat here with a blank canvas and wondering what pictures to paint on it.
One thing that cropped up from my guest writings was the question of why hasn’t melody written before. Well, she has.
Health and Safety Gone Mad
This is a phrase you often hear and tend to associate it with an aged colonel spluttering in to his breakfast tea as he reads The Daily Telegraph.
I present to you a genuine training document from the Health & Safety department for which a completion credit was mandatory.
On The Death of Leonard Cohen
Leonard Cohen was one cool dude. I wrote some words on hearing of his death and I reproduce them here with added images.